For days, he could only think of her. His work was constantly interrupted by thoughts of her radiant smile. Nothing else seemed important. Even food was just a necessity, it no longer holding his attention or satisfying him. Finally, he had the courage to ask her for a date. A few months later they married, their vows proclaiming everlasting love and devotion to one another. Five years later, he stared at the divorce papers, wondering what happened.
Relationships can vacillate in their intensity. One moment you are deeply in love and the next moment you can feel intense anger. Maybe you are laughing, holding hands, and then a few words are spoken that make you feel hurt and crushed. Why does this happen?
Sadhguru looks at one insidious thing that people do which messes up their relationships.