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From an early age we’re instructed to excel in academics. Excelling, we’re told, means consistently making higher grades and performing better than all our peers. In addition to learning the fundamentals of math, science, language and history, we learn another fundamental: life is all about competition. And those who rise to the top are the most successful. Any desire to educate ourselves is supplanted by the desire to always make the highest grade, and knowledge is not pursued in order to learn and grow, but as a way to position ourselves as more superior than others.

Writing against promoting competition in schools on his website, author and human behavior expert Alfie Kohn, writes that there is no “healthy competition” and all competition is eventually damaging to children. Kohn states that in a competitive culture, children are told that it’s just not enough to be good, they must be better than others. This has detrimental effects on the self-esteem of those who do not end up at the top, which is the majority of children. He adds that instead of working against each other, we should be encouraging the children to cooperate with other to enhance the learning experience for each student.

To help you further understand how competition impedes the learning process, we’ve shared Sadhuguru’s thoughts on the issue below, where he answers a meditators question about helping children withstand the pressure and competition in education:

“The pressure is only because you are putting two absolutely unique beings in comparison. Is there one more person exactly like you on this planet? No. There is only one like you. Each being is an absolutely unique being. That is so for your child also. But now you are trying to put them all into the same compartment and compare them with something that they can learn – ABC or 123 or something – and make them feel better or worse about it.

It is you who brought that competition and comparison because for most parents it is not about education, it is about first rank. All they want is that their children sit on top of every other child’s head.

Their whole effort in their life is how to sit on top of the pile. Everyone wants to sit on top of the pile but only a few can be on top. The others will naturally end up at the bottom and if our focus is just to sit on top of the pile, naturally they will get suffocated under the pile. This is bound to happen, there is no other way.

That orientation of education has to go. “No, I cannot do anything, the schools are like that.” No, schools are just catering to your attitudes. If your attitudes change, the schools will change. They want to run the business the way it works. All you want is that somehow your child should get 100%. It does not matter what happens to the child. The schools are just trying to cater to it because you are paying them. They are just trying to fulfill their job. In the course of your activity, the child is unhappy and getting ruined, but it does not matter. You want him to be the topper in the class. This is a sickness which has to go. We are just ruining a whole generation of people with the kind of schooling we are providing.

True human genius will not flower if this kind of education happens. True human capabilities will not find expression in competition. When you are trying to race with somebody, you are only thinking of going one step ahead of him, that’s all. You are not thinking of what your ultimate potential is.

True human capabilities will find expression only in absolute relaxation. Your mind, your body will work best and find fullest expression only when you are joyful, peaceful and quiet within yourself.”

How has Sadhguru’s insight into education affirmed or made you reevaluate your thoughts about education? Tell us in the comments below.





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  1. James Roller Reply
    I agree wholeheartedly with Sadhguru and Alfie Kohn...Competition maybe the wrong word to use. As a martial arts teacher, I teach a system of Chinese boxing called Wing Chun, it is a partner system, you need someone else to train with to develop any skill in it. When the students are doing partner drills, I always emphasize that there is "no competition" between the two when training together, rather there has to be a synergetic interdependent attitude between the two training partners, they need one another to test develop and test what they are training in, the key being development, if one if fighting the other in the drills to overcome them, then nothing will be learned by either, accept that one is egoic and needs to defeat another to prove worthiness.. It should be the same in education of our children, they need to test their knowledge or show that they have an understanding of what is being taught, but by making it competitive one is mostly learn how to overcome the other and feeling good about it, this is a huge problem in our society and goes with that person way beyond their formal education years and into their daily lives...Even at stop lights, people want to race you in their cars to the next light and floor it to be head of you, only to be stopped again at the next light, this is a waste of gas and can be dangerous in certain situations, but I wonder where was it that these people develop this behaviour?? Probably while they were in school and in their youth..
  2. Donna Reply
    This affirmed how i feel. We need a system that let's everyone shine.
  3. Lynda Wheelock Reply
    I was a Headstart teacher for 22 years-ages 3-5. There particularly, I saw the devastating results of any kind of competition- we avoided it in every way possible. A young child will often give up and not try when there is the sense of competing; often even become sad or depressed. We tried to place the emphasis on working together, and very importantly, that every effort was unique and cheered. We also talked a lot about the unique gifts every individual has to offer the world. One child can paint and draw, one child can run fast, and another has the gift of mathematics, etc. I think a sensitive teacher looks for these gifts to enable the child to shine.
  4. sagar Reply
    He always speaks the basics, which are so true and appealing.
  5. Alakananda Nath Reply
    I agree 200% with Sadguru's intake on competition. I feel more suffocated and see it as total injustice, especially when it comes to fine arts like dance and music. Beauty and perfection in any art is subjective and can vary from person to person. Each artist gives importance to different aspect of any particular art form. On top of it, the mood of the judges and the competitor on that day decides the result. So mismatch can happen at any level to any extent. Thus I see Competition as VISHABEEJA being sown, to grow as BEEJAASURA TREE. Jai Sadguru
  6. Tina Reply
    Couldn't agree more.
  7. Arunesh Dixit Reply
    Agreed with Sadhguru's insightful words. Today, schools are creating resources and not the resourcefulness. These programmed resources are human robots who can work on the tunes of corporate bosses and keep on doing the same work for years. What a waste of a human potential, as others who are not toppers made low-esteemed to live hand-to-mouth or always keep on becoming the one who was topper in their class. Thanks Sadhguru ji, your words are always prove to be best friend of a human being.
  8. Meenakshi Subramanian Reply
    The word education means bringing out what already exists inside.we send our children to school only because it is a social practice. In India,.every class has 40+ children,and how can the teacher pay individual attention? A parent can identify better about what a child is good at.We are stuffing children with information and theories told by others and never allow them to explore.it is better if every child, till grade 5,has no exams at all.just teach them languages,basic math which they need in day to day life,science social should be taught like stories.I remember my father telling me the story of the tap!how iron is digged out of earth,purified,boiled in high temperature furnaces,made into a liquid,put into molds and taps were made.then how did it reach our home was told and thereby commerce was taught,and the fitting process tells the effort of the plumber,the names of the tools he uses and so on.Remember this was in 70's and there were no computers in India. we ourselves visualized everything and still the story is intact in my mind,word by word!
  9. Kiran Reply
    I totally agree with the thoughts of Sadhguru.Competition in education only gives complex among the students and a result of which today people forget the true art of learning and listening to their inner voice. They mess up their whole life with unknown & uncertain competition/ complexes although life is very simple, but its simplicity lost and that leads them to Insecurity. People forget that life itself is a big school & we are not here to take/give complex to each other, but to learn the true music of life. people generally also have misconception between memory & Intelligence.
  10. Richard Krug Reply
    Yes, we should be nurturing our children, and then they will grow into the unique individual consciousness that they are meant to become. Their spiritual evolution is the thing that matters.
  11. L.Shanmugan Reply
    I am follower of Sadhguru for the past eigth years.My experiences under the belt of Isha are numerous.Yes, i absolutely agree with Sadhguru's thought. I have listened to Sadhgurus disclosures a lot.This a another feather on the cap.
  12. Kay Halsey Reply
    I was a Realtor for 18 years. Real Estate is a very competitive business. I decided I did not want to do this type of work anymore because of the competiton. There is absolutely no winning in this type of business. Even if you succeeded , you also failed. It never felt right to me, either way the business flowed. I am much happier now. I feel I am being true to myself and my fellow human beings now.
  13. L.Shanmugan Reply
    Namaskar, I have been into meditation for the past eight years, my spiritual experiences under the grace of Sadhguru, Dhayanalingam, Linga Bharavi have taken me to extascy. But till now i have a not understood what meditation is all about.But the link form my name to the Inner Enginering online made it point blank.Thanks to ISHA.
  14. Klara Reply
    Just beautiful. Every time. May we allow these words to become manifested. Much love xxxx
  15. Lily Kandaris Reply
    Sadhguru's words resonate very much on this subject. My son has attended Montessori school for 9 years and therefore, has not been exposed to much competition amongst his peers. I am divorced from his Father. It has been a challenge keeping our son in Montessori as his father wants our child to attend a huge public high school where he can play competitive sports and such. I hope we can keep him in Montessori for high school. Our son will continue to flourish there with his friends.

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