Have you ever been given the advice that you need to put yourself first? Maybe their argument was that you can’t take care of others if you are feeling depressed, exhausted, or under the weather.
On the other hand, it can be trying to live with or to be a friend to people who only think of themselves. Even if you tactfully point it out to them, it may fall on deaf ears. So, is there a middle ground? Is it OK to be selfish sometimes and truly giving other times? How do we know what is the best line of action?
Selfishness, says Sadhguru, is unavoidable, as we can only understand life through the perspective of ourselves.